Sometimes the IWSG topic just drops into my head. At other times I have to think long and hard. You guessed right. It’s the first Wednesday of the month and it’s time for our regular IWSG post. Insecure Writers Support Group, an online group of writers is a monthly hangout place where we writers troubled by a million insecurities discuss our anxieties, worries and writing problems with other writers. Other writers grappling with similar issues and insecurities completely understand us and they support and encourage us to stick to our writing and publishing path, inspite of all the odds stacked against us.
The credit for creating this awesome and inspiring group goes to Ninja Captain, Alex J Cavanaugh (author of the Amazon Bestsellers: CassaStar, CassaStorm, CassaFire and Dragon of the Stars). Check out the IWSG website for loads of useful information.
This month I want to discuss Giving in to Negative Behaviour. I am one of the few writers who has very few writing friends in India. Most of my writing pals are my blog buddies who are spread all over the world. In a way I am glad that I have only online writing pals.
The reason I am saying this is because I met an Indian writer online who I feel has only negative things to say about other writers, editors, publishing houses and the few Indian literary agents.
Every comment she makes is spiked with acid and full of insult. I have realized that she has only derogatory things to say about most of the other writers who have been published. According to her if one doesn’t know commissioning editors personally, one will never get published.
When I brought her behaviour to her notice, she accused me of living inside a protective bubble, a bubble which made me blind to all the politics, shenanigans and other crap that happens to writers. I am not denying that there are all kinds of games being played in publishing houses, where writers friendly with editors get their books published faster than other writers who submit via the slush pile. But, there is something called faith, faith in one’s talent that the slush pile writers must have.
I seriously feel that rejection has reduced her to this bitter state. Instead of working on her next lot of manuscripts, she revels in pulling down writers and even the entire system.
In my case I don’t want to query with a cloud of negativity shrouding me. I believe that good stories will find takers. I would rather follow Roald Dahl’s advice- “Those who don’t believe in magic will never find it.” I believe that my Publishing Fairy Godmother is beside me, scouting around for publishing deals. Call it childishness or stupidity, but I want to believe that there is a bright light at the end of my querying and submitting tunnel. That all my books will sit on many bookshelves one day.
Have you ever met such a negative person in your life? What would your advice to such a person be?